# 200: Styles of Relating – A Deeper Cut Series (Part 2)

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Podcast: [Become Good Soil](https://stenobird.com/podcast/become-good-soil-770573)
Published: 2025-11-18T10:00:00+00:00
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## Resource

“When we intentionally bring awareness to our internal world—our emotions, our sensations, our impulses; we begin to see the patterns that have been driving us. And once we see them, we are no longer bound by them. Awareness creates choice. Choice creates change.” — Dan Siegel ​Friends, In this second episode of a deeper dive into Styles of Relating, we reflect on how fear, hedging, and self-protection show up in our relationships, in contrast to the moments when, by God’s grace, we find ourselves relating from trust, dignity, and self-giving love instead. Nothing has exposed and transformed our own patterns more than this work. Slowly, we are learning to pause, to notice what’s actually motivating our reactions, to identify when fear and shame have snuck in sideways. But here’s the gift: awareness really does open space for change. And that change has brought us more joy, safety, and connection in our marriage than we ever imagined. We are grateful to be on this journey with you—toward wholeness, deeper love, and a growing trust in God and His Kingdom. It’s all been prologue. The best is yet to come. For the Kingdom, Morgan & Cherie

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