# 346: Teaching Kids Friendship Skills, with Jennifer Licate Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/beautifully-complex-222562/346-teaching-kids-friendship-skills-with-jennifer-licate Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/beautifully-complex-222562/346-teaching-kids-friendship-skills-with-jennifer-licate.md Podcast: [Beautifully Complex](https://stenobird.com/podcast/beautifully-complex-222562) Published: 2026-02-19T01:00:02+00:00 Episode link: https://www.spreaker.com/episode/346-teaching-kids-friendship-skills-with-jennifer-licate--70074022 Audio file: https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/p1887/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70074022/346_teaching_kids_friendship_skills.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/beautifully-complex-222562/episodes/346-teaching-kids-friendship-skills-with-jennifer-licate Duration seconds: 1776 ## Resource Friendship shouldn’t feel like an audition. And yet, for so many of our neurodivergent kids, it does. They try to decode shifting rules, confusing social cues, and ever-changing group dynamics, all while wondering, “Am I weird?” or “Why don’t I fit in?” It’s heartbreaking to watch your child struggle socially, especially when you’re not sure how much to step in and how much to step back. In this episode, I sit down with school counselor and children’s author Jennifer Licate to talk about what friendship skill-building actually looks like — especially for kids who struggle to read nonverbal cues, interpret tone, or navigate subtle social shifts. We talk about: • Helping kids understand facial expressions and body language in concrete ways • Supporting authenticity without pushing masking or compliance • Knowing when to intervene and when to let kids work it out • Teaching empathy without teaching kids to tolerate mistreatment • Letting go of friendships that no longer feel safe or aligned Friendship is nuanced. It’s emotional. And for our kids, it can feel overwhelming. This conversation is full of gentle guidance for helping your child build real connection while staying true to who they are. If you’ve ever wondered how to support your child socially without over-managing or forcing them to “fit in,” this episode is for you. Listen now and let’s unpack this together. Show notes and more resources at parentingadhdandautism.com/346 This episode sponsored by VillageMetrics — Just talk about your child's day. VillageMetrics uses AI to find patterns, track progress, and show you what's helping. Start your free trial today. [ https://villagemetrics.com?utm_source=beautifully_complex&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=beautifully_complex.](https://villagemetrics.com/?… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/beautifully-complex-222562/episodes/346-teaching-kids-friendship-skills-with-jennifer-licate/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/beautifully-complex-222562/346-teaching-kids-friendship-skills-with-jennifer-licate.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.