# Why Joy Returns When You Stop Living in the Future Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/be-sweet-ya-ll-5673208/why-joy-returns-when-you-stop-living-in-the-future Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/be-sweet-ya-ll-5673208/why-joy-returns-when-you-stop-living-in-the-future.md Podcast: [Be Sweet Ya'll](https://stenobird.com/podcast/be-sweet-ya-ll-5673208) Published: 2026-02-16T23:30:01+00:00 Episode link: https://www.spreaker.com/episode/why-joy-returns-when-you-stop-living-in-the-future--69896795 Audio file: https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/69896795/joy_and_delight_are_twin_sisters_how_to_get_out_of_a_funk_pop_up_1.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/be-sweet-ya-ll-5673208/episodes/why-joy-returns-when-you-stop-living-in-the-future Duration seconds: 1772 ## Resource Have you ever found yourself overwhelmed, not depressed, just stretched too thin and living everywhere except the present moment?Today, I share honestly about being in a funk and what helped me find my way back. I talk about slowing down and remembering that joy and delight are inseparable. We explore what it means to have a low bar for delight, and how neglecting the things that nourish us can quietly steal our peace. This episode is for anyone who feels scattered, tired, or unsure which direction to go. It’s your chance to return to what rings true in your heart. Episode Highlights [01:00] Being overwhelmed vs. being present [02:00] “Now here” instead of “nowhere” [03:30] A low bar for delight [05:30] Creating space for rest and prayer [07:00] When joy feels squelched by life [08:30] Joy and delight as spiritual practice [11:00] Grief, connection, and being fully seen [15:00] Reflecting what’s inside of us [18:30] Nourishing the soul in hard seasons [22:00] Choosing love, compassion, and kindness [26:00] Radiating joy instead of chasing it [28:30] Closing affirmation and invitation to pause Special Thanks to Our Sponsors Buffalo Rock Pepsi https://www.buffalorock.com Holiday Beach Mechanical https://holidaybeachmechanical.com Shorehouse Furniture https://shorehousefurniture.com American Home Shield https://www.ahs.com Resources: When the Heart Wakes by Sue Monk Kidd Let’s Stay Connected! Follow along @MyHappyAssLife on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, and YouTube so you never miss an episode.🎙 Presented by ADF Media Be sweet, y’all 💖 ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/be-sweet-ya-ll-5673208/episodes/why-joy-returns-when-you-stop-living-in-the-future/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/be-sweet-ya-ll-5673208/why-joy-returns-when-you-stop-living-in-the-future.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.