# Researching A Gang Bang Radicalized My Wife Against Early-Stage Abortion (We Were Wrong)

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Published: 2026-06-08T11:35:00+00:00
Episode link: https://basedcamppodcast.substack.com/p/researching-a-gang-bang-made-my-wife
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One of the experiences we treasure most involves our minds being changed on an issue. If we’re wrong about something, we’d prefer to be nudged in a less wrong direction. We did NOT expect to have one of these experiences when clicking through to learn about a truly modern meet-cute: When Romy Holland met her future husband—and the father of her now-young child—at Aella’s famous birthday gangbang , which she both helped to organize and supported as a fluffer. Anyway, you’ll see for yourself in today’s episode of Based Camp. Happy Monday! Make sure you read Romy’s full essay —the one that ultimately changed our views on misoprostol, which we had previously seen as pretty innocuous; she’s an eloquent and moving writer. Show Notes One of the fluffers at Aella’s birthday gangbangs paired up and ultimately had a child with one of the guests/participants Crazier than that, this young woman radicalized me on early-term abortion! The Gist: Romy Holland , a friend of Aella’s, recently went on Slate’s podcast, Death, Sex & Money, to talk about her experience meeting a guy at Aella’s birthday gang bang and eventually falling in love with him. This story was originally covered in the San Francisco Standard . In her What Happened * Romy helped organize the famous 42-man gangbang birthday party in 2024 * She also acted as a fluffer at this event * In this capacity, she met a programmer she had previously noticed online * They subsequently began dating, had a kid together, and are now engage and—for the time being at least—monogamous Underrated: Romy blackpilled me on the abortion pill An underrated element of Romy’s narrative arc thus far is her experience with abortion—something she articulated so beautifully and powerfully that it has totally radicalized me on misoprostol. Her one…

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