# Marriage Should Be Fun—So Why Isn't It? Ep. 732 Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/awesome-marriage-podcast-1059245/marriage-should-be-fun-so-why-isn-t-it-ep-732 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/awesome-marriage-podcast-1059245/marriage-should-be-fun-so-why-isn-t-it-ep-732.md Podcast: [Awesome Marriage Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/awesome-marriage-podcast-1059245) Published: 2026-06-09T05:30:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.awesomemarriage.com Audio file: https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/awesomemarriage/Am_Podcast_Audio_Kim_and_Nancy_June_2026_1.mp3?dest-id=307718 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/awesome-marriage-podcast-1059245/episodes/marriage-should-be-fun-so-why-isn-t-it-ep-732 Duration seconds: 1137 ## Resource Marriage isn't supposed to be all work and no play. But somewhere between busy schedules, responsibilities, stress, and everyday life, a lot of couples find themselves feeling more like roommates than best friends. In this episode, Dr. Kim and Nancy talk about why fun matters so much in marriage, how couples gradually lose it, and what it takes to bring it back. Whether your marriage feels stuck in a rut or you simply miss enjoying each other the way you once did, this conversation offers practical encouragement and simple ways to reconnect. Tune in as they discuss the signs that fun has faded, why couples often settle for "fine," and how even small moments of laughter, playfulness, and intentional connection can help strengthen your relationship. Plus, you'll walk away with one simple challenge you can put into practice this week. If your marriage could use a little more joy, this episode is for you. Episode Highlights: Why fun matters more than you think What's causing the joy to fade How to reconnect and enjoy each other again Quotes from this Episode: It's not exactly what we do, it's how we feel when we are doing something together. Losing fun doesn't happen overnight. You start feeling kindof bored together so you stop laughing together. You stop talking. You quit interacting. I don't think in a lifetime you can learn everything about your spouse. You have to stay curious. Life isn't all about fun. But fun does sure make a lot of life go better. If you're just coasting, you're missing out on so much of what God has for you in marriage. Time to Talk About it: When we dated, how would you rate our fun 1-10? How would you rate it now? Are we using efficiency as an excuse to neglect intentionality? What do you enjoy doing with me (with spouse) for fun? When is our ne… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/awesome-marriage-podcast-1059245/episodes/marriage-should-be-fun-so-why-isn-t-it-ep-732/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/awesome-marriage-podcast-1059245/marriage-should-be-fun-so-why-isn-t-it-ep-732.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.