# When Self-Help Becomes Harmful: Why You Should Stop Trying to Heal All Your Trauma Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/authentic-parenting-951492/when-self-help-becomes-harmful-why-you-should-stop-trying-to-heal-all-your-trauma Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/authentic-parenting-951492/when-self-help-becomes-harmful-why-you-should-stop-trying-to-heal-all-your-trauma.md Podcast: [Authentic Parenting](https://stenobird.com/podcast/authentic-parenting-951492) Published: 2026-06-06T16:25:00+00:00 Episode link: https://authenticparenting.com/podcast Audio file: https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/authenticmoments/When_Self-Help_Beccomes_Harmful.mp3?dest-id=489223 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/authentic-parenting-951492/episodes/when-self-help-becomes-harmful-why-you-should-stop-trying-to-heal-all-your-trauma Duration seconds: 4605 ## Resource I've spent over a decade in the self-development space, and somewhere along the way, I began to see a pattern: the more people focus on healing, the more their lives start to revolve around what's wrong. More analyzing, more processing, more regulating and less living, less connecting, less being. So in this episode, I want to talk about something that might feel uncomfortable, even controversial: there comes a point when trying to heal all your trauma can actually keep you stuck and why you may need to stop, or at least do it very differently. LINKS AND RESOURCES Support the podcast by making a donation (suggested amount $15) 732-763-2576 call to leave a voicemail. info@authenticparenting.com Send audio messages using Speakpipe. Join the Authentic Parenting Community on Facebook. Work w/Anna. Listeners get 10% off her services. Podcast Production by Aminur ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/authentic-parenting-951492/episodes/when-self-help-becomes-harmful-why-you-should-stop-trying-to-heal-all-your-trauma/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/authentic-parenting-951492/when-self-help-becomes-harmful-why-you-should-stop-trying-to-heal-all-your-trauma.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.