# When my students look like the walking dead, I’m no longer interested in the marital act, and Am I Loved as a Priest or as a Man?” | ACW364 Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-christopher-west-240572/when-my-students-look-like-the-walking-dead-i-m-no-longer-interested-in-the-marital-act-and-am-i-loved-as-a-priest-or-as-a-man-acw364 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-christopher-west-240572/when-my-students-look-like-the-walking-dead-i-m-no-longer-interested-in-the-marital-act-and-am-i-loved-as-a-priest-or-as-a-man-acw364.md Podcast: [Ask Christopher West](https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-christopher-west-240572) Published: 2025-12-22T08:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/juan-arregun5/episodes/When-my-students-look-like-the-walking-dead--Im-no-longer-interested-in-the-marital-act--and-Am-I-Loved-as-a-Priest-or-as-a-Man---ACW364-e3cf0ib Audio file: https://anchor.fm/s/10343b5d0/podcast/play/112738315/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-11-16%2Febbcb8c8-7052-4bf2-1743-7089ee923e4e.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/ask-christopher-west-240572/episodes/when-my-students-look-like-the-walking-dead-i-m-no-longer-interested-in-the-marital-act-and-am-i-loved-as-a-priest-or-as-a-man-acw364 Duration seconds: 2810 ## Resource –This episode is sponsored by Truthly– Questions answered this episode: I am a theology teacher of high school students at a Catholic school. How do I joyfully proclaim Theology of the Body—or any Church teaching—when my students look like the walking dead? A coworker calls them spiritually dead. They don’t seem to care and they fall asleep in class. Satan has used all of that to make me question whether I’m in the right career. I think, if I was truly called, my students’ faith would come alive. How can I share this beautiful message with anyone who seems spiritually dead? At age 60, I’m no longer interested in the marital act, and it is most painful and unpleasant—therefore, not happening. I am TOB savvy and preach it to everyone, but I’m not living it. I know the marital act rocks my husband’s world, but I cannot tolerate it. I’ve had medical procedures contributing to the unpleasantness. I probably should seek medical attention, but would rather not. I am a priest and a religious. Throughout my formation, the emphasis was mostly on the challenging, sacrificial dimension of celibacy, but TOB has brought joy into living it. Celibacy feels like a continual discovery of God’s closeness and of living with the people entrusted to me. But I don’t know whether this fulfillment brings joy to the parts of me that desire a deeper, more personal gaze—and whether that gaze is reserved only for God. I’m not sure if I’m loved for my vocation or if I, Andrea, am worthy of love as a person. Can you help me understand this? Resources: JPII Legacy Foundation Website Donate to the JPII Legacy Foundation Colorado Ski Retreat with Christopher Writings of JPII Course Link TOB at the Movies eBook Litanies of the Heart by Dr. Gerry Crete Fr. John Cihak’s Article --- Ask Christopher West is… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/ask-christopher-west-240572/episodes/when-my-students-look-like-the-walking-dead-i-m-no-longer-interested-in-the-marital-act-and-am-i-loved-as-a-priest-or-as-a-man-acw364/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/ask-christopher-west-240572/when-my-students-look-like-the-walking-dead-i-m-no-longer-interested-in-the-marital-act-and-am-i-loved-as-a-priest-or-as-a-man-acw364.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.