# Parenting for Decades, Not Days
 (Ep 14)

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Published: 2026-07-08T03:45:36+00:00
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## Resource

Most families are running the same playbook: over-busied parents putting out temporary fires all day, children who reach adulthood unable to do laundry, cook a meal, or manage a budget. The question nobody is asking is simple. What is that playbook producing? In this episode, Daniel and Allison Hartman pull the lens back from days to decades. A University of Minnesota study tracked young adults over 20 years and found the best predictor of success in a person's mid twenties was participating in household tasks starting at age three or four. Not grades. Not programs. Responsibility. Daniel and Allison share how working alongside their children in the family businesses builds far more than skills. It builds relationship, work ethic, and the kind of adults who invite their parents to dinner, pick up the check, and read to the grandchildren on the couch. You will hear: Why "putting out fires" parenting produces unprepared adults The paradigm shift from running a hotel to raising a generation How family work becomes the classroom for morality, skill, and calling Why this is the most exciting news a worn-out mom will hear all year You are not setting your children up for success by doing everything for them. Start with one thing today. Learn more and join us at Gulf Coast Family Camp: ArrowsAndAcres.com

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