# Pride and Connection | "Atlas of the Heart" | Chapter 13 and Conclusion Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/around-the-circle-an-enneagram-channel-86508/pride-and-connection-atlas-of-the-heart-chapter-13-and-conclusion Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/around-the-circle-an-enneagram-channel-86508/pride-and-connection-atlas-of-the-heart-chapter-13-and-conclusion.md Podcast: [Around the Circle | An Enneagram Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/around-the-circle-an-enneagram-channel-86508) Published: 2026-09-21T15:30:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.aroundthecircle.org/episodes/ Audio file: https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/4160a8d5-a8b6-45c0-a43a-52f64f7ed6dc.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/around-the-circle-an-enneagram-channel-86508/episodes/pride-and-connection-atlas-of-the-heart-chapter-13-and-conclusion Duration seconds: 2621 ## Resource Join the Reading Room : HERE ____ In this episode of the Reading Room, we finish our journey through Brené Brown’s Atlas of the Heart , turning to pride, hubris, humility, and the complicated work of seeing ourselves clearly. We explore the difference between healthy self-regard and self-obsession, and ask how wisdom might help us find an honest assessment of both our value and our limitations. Along the way, we move into Brown’s conclusion and the relationship between emotion, theory, and meaning. What stories do we use to make sense of ourselves and the world—and where might the Enneagram fit as a theory of human motivation? We consider the role of self-awareness, the centers, and the stories we tell in creating meaning from our experience. Lastly, we explore Brown’s distinction between the “near” and “far” enemies of connection and what it might tell us about love. Attachment can masquerade as love, just as other emotions can appear to connect us while actually pulling us apart. We end with a question at the heart of the entire book: How might knowing ourselves more deeply help us become people who can more freely love and connect with others? #enneagram ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/around-the-circle-an-enneagram-channel-86508/episodes/pride-and-connection-atlas-of-the-heart-chapter-13-and-conclusion/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/around-the-circle-an-enneagram-channel-86508/pride-and-connection-atlas-of-the-heart-chapter-13-and-conclusion.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.