# S1 E29 Why So Many ADHD Women Date the Same Guy: Late Diagnosis & Relationship Patterns

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Podcast: [Angry On The Inside - ADHD Women Talking Late Diagnosis](https://stenobird.com/podcast/angry-on-the-inside-adhd-women-talking-late-diagnosis-7487854)
Published: 2026-02-18T12:30:00+00:00
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## Resource

Why do so many late-diagnosed ADHD women look back and feel like they dated the same guy over and over? In this episode of Angry on the Inside, Jess and Jeannine break down ADHD and relationship patterns including gaslighting, memory doubt, Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD), love bombing, dopamine-driven chemistry, and low-maintenance masking. They talk about why calm can feel boring, why chaos can feel magnetic, and how late ADHD diagnosis can bring painful retroactive clarity to your dating history. ADHD made you vulnerable. It didn’t make you responsible. If you’ve ever wondered, “Was it me?” this one’s for you.

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