# 74 - Why Anger Keeps Destroying Your Relationship (And How to Stop It)

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Podcast: [Anger Management](https://stenobird.com/podcast/anger-management-7096541)
Published: 2026-03-29T18:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://angersecrets.com/74-why-anger-keeps-destroying-your-relationship-and-how-to-stop-it
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Duration seconds: 580

## Resource

For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com . Anger in a relationship doesn't have to mean the end of the relationship. But without the right tools, the same arguments keep happening, the same damage keeps building — and eventually, something breaks. In this episode of The Anger Secrets Podcast, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares four practical things you can start doing this week to change the way anger shows up in your relationship. In this solo episode, Alastair walks you through four key areas, from understanding your triggers to remembering you and your partner are on the same team, giving you a clear, actionable roadmap for lasting change. Key Takeaways: Understanding your anger triggers is the foundation. But without knowing what sets you off, those triggers run the show without you Talking openly about issues before they build is the difference between a conversation and an explosion. A weekly relationship check-in is a simple tool that makes this possible Stress and anger are directly linked. Managing your stress levels outside the relationship directly reduces conflict inside it Most arguments feel like battles because we're trying to win. Shifting from "convince" to "understand" is where real resolution lives Both people in a conflict have valid perspectives. Seeking to understand your partner's view almost always leads them to seek yours in return. If anger has been damaging your relationship, this episode gives you four clear places to start, and the perspective to make them stick. Links referenced in this episode: angersecrets.com — Learn more about anger management angersecrets.com/training — Watch the free training: Breaking the Anger Cycle angersecrets.com/course — Enrol in The Complete Anger Management System

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