# 'Not Every Boat Is Yours to Fix': Teaching Kids Boundaries Before People-Pleasing Starts

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Podcast: [Adventures in the Heart of Children's Book Authors Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/adventures-in-the-heart-of-children-s-book-authors-podcast-6727412)
Published: 2026-08-11T11:15:00+00:00
Episode link: https://kaboosetherockymountainbear.com/podcasts/not-every-boat-karim
Audio file: https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/66e7d9bc-5ff3-4f45-aa2f-412303467ea2.mp3
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Duration seconds: 3920

## Resource

The central theme of our conversation revolves around the profound insights encapsulated in my book, *Not Every Boat Is Yours to Fix*. This narrative seeks to impart the essential lesson that kindness does not necessitate self-abandonment; one can exhibit compassion while simultaneously establishing necessary boundaries. Karim has endeavored to share her personal journey, experiences, and reflections on the nuances of relationships, particularly the importance of discerning which burdens she to carries. The impetus for this work emerged from a pivotal moment in therapy, wherein Karim realized the significance of relinquishing the weight of others’ struggles. The conversation emphasizes that the journey of a children's book author is fraught with challenges yet immensely rewarding when the author recognizes their capacity to inspire and educate through storytelling. Karim's reflections on her motivations, the creative process, and the lessons embedded within her book culminate in a powerful reminder: every story holds the potential to evoke change and foster understanding, making it essential reading for children and adults alike. Engage with us as we explore the intricacies of being a children's book author and the transformative power of storytelling, which ultimately aspires to equip the next generation with the tools for healthier relationships. In conclusion, the podcast serves as a platform to illuminate the significance of emotional literacy in children's literature. Karim's heartfelt narrative not only reflects her personal experiences but also resonates with a broader audience, including adults who may grapple with similar themes of boundary-setting and self-identity. Takeaways: The podcast episode features a discussion about the book titled 'Not Every Boat Is…

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