# E 369: Becoming Trigger Proof/ Guest Nima Rahmany Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/adult-child-of-dysfunction-6619234/e-369-becoming-trigger-proof-guest-nima-rahmany Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/adult-child-of-dysfunction-6619234/e-369-becoming-trigger-proof-guest-nima-rahmany.md Podcast: [Adult Child of Dysfunction](https://stenobird.com/podcast/adult-child-of-dysfunction-6619234) Published: 2026-09-11T08:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://adult-child-of-dysfunction.captivate.fm/episode/childhood-trauma-attachment-style-trigger-proof Audio file: https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/96581980-e2b2-410a-aaa6-1ee14dd54c7f.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/adult-child-of-dysfunction-6619234/episodes/e-369-becoming-trigger-proof-guest-nima-rahmany Duration seconds: 2433 ## Resource Why do some relationships feel safe while others leave you anxious, overwhelmed, or constantly questioning yourself? The answer may have less to do with your partner—and far more to do with the attachment patterns your nervous system learned in childhood. In this episode of the Adult Child of Dysfunction Podcast , I sit down with Dr. Nima Rahmany , creator of the Becoming Trigger Proof® methodology, to explore how unresolved attachment wounds continue to influence our adult relationships, emotional reactions, boundaries, and sense of self. Through his own personal story and years of clinical experience, Dr. Nima explains why healing isn't about becoming "triggerless." It's about learning how to regulate your nervous system, repair relationships, and respond instead of react. Together, we discuss why conflict itself isn't the problem—it's the lack of repair afterward that slowly erodes trust. We also explore anxious and avoidant attachment, emotional attunement, people pleasing, codependency, childhood survival patterns, and how the nervous system quietly shapes the way we show up in every relationship. One of my favorite takeaways from this conversation is the reminder that you can't think yourself to safety—your body has to feel safe first. That shift alone has the power to change the way you approach healing, parenting, communication, and connection. 🎁 Free Gift from Dr. Nima If you're curious about your own attachment style, Dr. Nima is offering his Attachment Style Assessment completely free . 👉 Take the free assessment here: https://go.drnima.com/it11r You can also learn more about Dr. Nima and his Becoming Trigger Proof® methodology at: 🌐 https://becometriggerproof.com/ If you've ever wondered why you keep repeating the same relationship patterns or why certain s… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/adult-child-of-dysfunction-6619234/episodes/e-369-becoming-trigger-proof-guest-nima-rahmany/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/adult-child-of-dysfunction-6619234/e-369-becoming-trigger-proof-guest-nima-rahmany.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.