# Gratitude: How Not to Say Thank You Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/a-moment-of-hope-6380313/gratitude-how-not-to-say-thank-you Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/a-moment-of-hope-6380313/gratitude-how-not-to-say-thank-you.md Podcast: [A Moment of Hope](https://stenobird.com/podcast/a-moment-of-hope-6380313) Published: 2026-07-20T10:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://a852a973-4adc-4299-bb53-caff7cbf2ba5.libsyn.com/gratitude-how-not-to-say-thank-you Audio file: https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/a852a973-4adc-4299-bb53-caff7cbf2ba5/MOHC26.0720_Daily.mp3?dest-id=3339476 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/a-moment-of-hope-6380313/episodes/gratitude-how-not-to-say-thank-you Duration seconds: 277 ## Resource by Marilynn Chadwick Is it possible to offend God with the way we thank him? Apparently so—if our "thank you" comes from a self-righteous heart. Jesus told this story to a group of religious leaders who were confident in their own "goodness" and scorned everyone else: "Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee stood by himself and prayed: 'God, I thank you that I am not like other people—robbers, evildoers, adulterers—or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week and give a tenth of all I get. "But the tax collector stood at a distance. He would not even look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, 'God, have mercy on me, a sinner.' "I tell you that this man, rather than the other, went home justified before God. For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted" (Luke 18:10-13). The two men couldn't have been more different. The Pharisee was well-bred, well-educated, and well-off. He had an impressive religious pedigree. He had arrived . The tax collector, on the other hand, was a loser. To the Jews, he was an object of scorn—a pagan Gentile. A sinner, and easy to despise. He had no social standing, no prestige, and probably not many friends. Then as now—nobody much liked a tax collector. At first glance, it looks like the Pharisee is thanking God for his many blessings. But a closer look lets us in on the real truth. His "prayer of thanks" was just a way to boast that he wasn't like those "evildoers." He probably spoke loudly enough for the tax collector to hear him. That means his thanks to God was just an announcement of his own righteousness—a reminder to everyone in his hearing that he fasted and tithed. The Greek translation of this passage sheds… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/a-moment-of-hope-6380313/episodes/gratitude-how-not-to-say-thank-you/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/a-moment-of-hope-6380313/gratitude-how-not-to-say-thank-you.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.