# how to stop romanticizing their potential

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Podcast: [A Little Birdie Told You](https://stenobird.com/podcast/a-little-birdie-told-you-6578350)
Published: 2026-03-28T05:25:01+00:00
Episode link: https://alittlebirdietoldyou.podbean.com/e/how-to-stop-romanticizing-their-potential/
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## Resource

Many of us see the potential in the patterns of reality when it comes to a person. We create this idealized version of them in our minds, hoping that maybe if we stay a little longer, give a little more, or explain with more detail, that maybe they will change. Yet, the truth is, you cannot force change on someone who is unwilling to grow. In this episode, Kristen and Kelli discuss why it’s important to focus on the reality over the potential of a person, as their potential isn’t a promise. Whether it's learning how to let go, focusing on the present, or accepting reality, this episode gives you the relief in stopping yourself from romanticizing potential. Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.

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