# Ken Breniman on Naked Yoga, Death Awareness, and Why Gay Men Over 40 Must Stop Avoiding Mortality

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Podcast: [40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.](https://stenobird.com/podcast/40-plus-gay-men-gay-talk-912616)
Published: 2026-04-10T10:30:00+00:00
Episode link: https://rickclemons.com/40-gay-men-gay-talk/375-kenneth-breniman
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## Resource

Aging hits different when you’re a gay man over 40. The body shifts. Friends disappear. Mortality stops being abstract. In this raw conversation, Ken Breniman, author, therapist, and leader of naked yoga for LGBTQ+ men, dives into death awareness, grief, body shame, loneliness, and why avoiding mortality keeps you negotiating your life. We talk orangutans in Borneo, naked yoga as radical body acceptance, and the courage it takes to face the truth about aging. If you’re over 40 and still pretending you have unlimited time, this episode will wake you up, to s top negotiating your gay life. Live like you mean it. Key takeaways: Death Awareness Is Not Morbid. It’s Clarifying. When you stop pretending you’re immortal, you stop tolerating what drains you. Mortality sharpens decision-making. Body Shame Doesn’t Expire at 40. Naked yoga isn’t about exhibitionism. It’s exposure to truth. Aging bodies deserve presence, not critique. Loneliness Doesn’t Fix Itself. Community takes intention. Waiting to “feel ready” keeps you isolated longer than you admit. About Kenneth Ken Breniman is a queer healer, writer, and elder-in-training who helps people dream more and dread less in uncertain times. He is a licensed clinical social worker, certified yoga therapist, and thanatology-informed grief educator whose work explores aging, intimacy, grief capacity, and personal death awareness, especially within LGBTQ+ communities. Ken is the author of a three body solution, an award-winning speculative sci-fi novel that uses humor, absurdity, and imagination to explore gerotranscendence, life force, and what it means to grow older without hardening or checking out. Drawing from grief work, primatology, contemplative practice, and storytelling, Ken blends depth with playfulness to make difficult c…

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