# Top 10 Practices for Resetting Your Time, Space, Body, Inner Critic, and Social Life | Laurie Santos and Gretchen Rubin Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/10-happier-with-dan-harris-839823/top-10-practices-for-resetting-your-time-space-body-inner-critic-and-social-life-laurie-santos-and-gretchen-rubin Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/10-happier-with-dan-harris-839823/top-10-practices-for-resetting-your-time-space-body-inner-critic-and-social-life-laurie-santos-and-gretchen-rubin.md Podcast: [10% Happier with Dan Harris](https://stenobird.com/podcast/10-happier-with-dan-harris-839823) Published: 2026-09-09T07:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://05620661-2103-4fe0-9ab9-92bfc4d9cf22.libsyn.com/top-10-practices-for-resetting-your-time-space-body-inner-critic-and-social-life-laurie-santos-and-gretchen-rubin Audio file: https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/35/traffic.libsyn.com/secure/05620661-2103-4fe0-9ab9-92bfc4d9cf22/20260901_TPHP_GretchenRubin-LaurieSantos_AUDIO_Mastered_AudioVersion_v2.mp3?dest-id=4933335 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/10-happier-with-dan-harris-839823/episodes/top-10-practices-for-resetting-your-time-space-body-inner-critic-and-social-life-laurie-santos-and-gretchen-rubin Duration seconds: 3762 ## Resource How to understand your tendencies and identify what's keeping you stuck. Plus: advice on treating resistance as data, reclaiming time affluence, and avoiding "procrasticlearing." Laurie Santos is the Chandrika and Ranjan Tandon Professor of Psychology at Yale University. In addition to her work on the evolutionary origins of human cognition, Laurie is an expert on the science of happiness and the ways in which our minds lie to us about what makes us happy. Her podcast, The Happiness Lab , is a top-3 Apple podcast which has attracted 150+ million downloads since its launch. Gretchen Rubin is one of today's most influential and thought-provoking observers of happiness and human nature. She's the author of many bestselling books, such as The Happiness Project, Better Than Before, The Four Tendencies, and Life in Five Senses which have sold millions of copies in more than thirty languages. Her most recent book is Secrets of Adulthood. She's also host of the popular podcast, Happier with Gretchen Rubin . In this episode we talk about: Why your intuitions often make stuckness worse, not better The difference between mindless drift and mindful, deliberate delay How to treat resistance as useful data instead of laziness Kristin Neff's three-part framework for practicing real self-compassion Gretchen Rubin's Four Tendencies and how they shape what gets you unstuck Why clearing physical space creates a felt sense of agency The "liking gap" and why reaching out matters more than you think How to satisfice instead of optimize when a decision feels stuck Related Episodes: Past appearances of Gretchen and Laurie Get the 10% with Dan Harris app here Sign up for Dan's free newsletter here Follow Dan on social: Instagram , TikTok Subscribe to our YouTube Channel Additional Resources: T… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/10-happier-with-dan-harris-839823/episodes/top-10-practices-for-resetting-your-time-space-body-inner-critic-and-social-life-laurie-santos-and-gretchen-rubin/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/10-happier-with-dan-harris-839823/top-10-practices-for-resetting-your-time-space-body-inner-critic-and-social-life-laurie-santos-and-gretchen-rubin.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.